Urantia Book
160:5.10
links to New Testament References (KJV):
Who would save life must lose it:
Lk 17:33,
Mk 8:35,
Lk 9:24,
Mt 16:25,
Jn 12:25,
Mt 10:39
Not come to bring peace:
Lk 12:51,
Mt 10:34